Objects of Desire
A sermon on Exodus 20: 1-17 & John 2:13-22 by Nathan Nettleton, 19 March 2006
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We all learn our desires from others, but most of them are destructive. The pathway to freedom and life is to learn our desires from Christ.


Every time there is an election, there are numerous politicians who boost their ratings by jumping up and down about law and order. There are always votes to be gained by promising to come down harder on crime. We don't have to look to far to see why. All of us fear crime to some extent, and it is not hard to fuel a fear, especially if there are votes to be gained. I've had my nose broken a couple of times in unprovoked assaults over the years, and I know that some things can trigger my lingering fears and get me feeling fearful again when there is no need to. These politicians know that almost everybody has been a victim of some sort of crime sometime, and that if you can convince people that crime is a growing problem and that you'll do something about it, they'll vote for you. The truth is that most crime statistics have been fairly stable in recent years in Melbourne, but if you've been watching the news, that may come as a surprise.

It is not uncommon to find Christians jumping on the bandwagon with calls for a tougher stance on law and order, and when they do, the Ten Commandments are frequently trotted out. "If only people would pay more attention to the Ten Commandments," they say, "then we would all be safer, and society would be a better place, and God would get the glory." I was in the USA last year, and you hear this far more loudly over there, because conservative Christians make up a much bigger percentage of their population. They lobby to have the Ten Commandments displayed in law courts and taught in schools. I'm fairly sceptical about the value of such an approach to the commandments, for two reasons. The first is that to try to put the Ten Commandments on the national agenda is to overlook the fact that they are not a set of universal principles but the behavioural content of a unique covenant between God and those who dedicate themselves to being God's people. Such an approach ends up domesticating the commandments and watering them down into a set of bland motherhood statements.

The second reason for my scepticism has to do with the nature of law and order itself, and it is this one that I want to unpack more fully this evening. It takes us into the curly question of the nature of law in the Christian framework. No doubt you have stumbled into the apparent biblical confusion about the law in the Christian gospel. You know, Jesus is constantly accused of violating the law and usually doesn't even deny it, while at the same time he says that he did not come to abolish the law and that not even a jot or tiddle would be deleted from it, and then there is Paul jumping up and down saying "the law is the way of death." So are we Christians supposed to be law and order people, or aren't we? Well, to give you the summary before I elaborate, it is necessary for a society to have the law, but the law will never actually solve the problem that it is seeking to address, and since we Christians have encountered something that can deal with the real problem, our gospel is not a message of law and order.

One thing that is fabulously useful about the Ten Commandments though (although not the only thing) is that they are a unique and remarkably sophisticated summary of what good law is always trying to do. This is even, and perhaps especially true in the second half where the commandments are all about how we treat each other and there is no mention of God. "You shall not murder. You shall not commit adultery. You shall not steal. You shall not bear false witness against anyone. You shall not desire your neighbour's house, or your neighbour's spouse, or slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbour."

Now at one level, what you have got here is a neat summary of the law and order agenda. If we could just stop people killing each other, jumping into bed with each other's lovers, stealing each others stuff, and telling malicious lies about each other, then things would be okay, so let's legislate and enforce the law. But the trouble is, legislating doesn't stop people wanting to do those things. All it does is restrain most of them, most of the time, and thereby contain the violence and stop it all getting too out of hand. And this is where the final commandment is both remarkable and impossible. "You shall not desire things that belong to other people. You shall not desire your neighbour's house, or your neighbour's lover, or employees or assets or anything else that belongs to your neighbour." It is one thing to say don't steal stuff, but it is quite another to say don't even desire it, don't even wish you could have it.

Now many commentators and preachers, me included, have tried to make sense of this by suggesting that it means covetousness, a nasty desire that we fuel until it rages out of control, but it doesn't actually say that. The Hebrew word is just the ordinary word for desire. The desire for a beer and a pie; the desire for a good night's sleep; the desire for a bigger house. "You shall not desire the things that other people possess." Now clearly we are not talking about a commandment that can be translated into enforceable law here. We are not going to lock people up for wishing they owned someone else's house or were married to someone else's spouse. So what sort of commandment is this? Why do the Ten Commandments have to finish on such an extreme and impossible note?

Well, there is actually quite a profound and perhaps terrifying insight into human nature here, and into the nature of our desires. The way we desire is significantly different from the animals. Most of the desires that animals experience are instinctive; they are hard wired into their brains and they can't be changed. A cow desires to eat grass. Nothing is going to change that. A cow does not look over the fence and think, "Gee, those people are eating sandwiches. I wish I could eat sandwiches." But we are different. Only a few of our desires are instinctive. Almost all of our desires are learned by unconsciously observing and copying what other people desire. We are eating a perfectly good sandwich, and someone else laughs at our sandwich and pulls out a pie, and next thing we know we are desperately keen to have a pie. Or on the other hand, if the other person walks in and says, "Gee, I wish I had a sandwich like yours," the next thing we know is that our sandwich suddenly tastes a whole lot better!

The fashion industry is the most blatantly obvious example of this. At present people who are into fashion desire to have jeans with waistlines lower than they've ever had them before. That's not instinctive. They had to be taught to desire that. I'm not sure if it is true, but I read in the paper that they are all about to be re-educated to want jeans with waistlines higher than they have ever had them before. Most fashionable young things could not presently imagine desiring such jeans, but if that is what the fashion industry begins modelling, then the desire will be contagious, just as it always is. The advertising industry is so successful because they understand this. By bombarding us with images of people desiring and possessing things that we didn't know we wanted or needed, they create the desire in us. We can learn by example to desire women who are too skinny, or men with no hair on their chests, or plasma televisions, or houses that are three times bigger than our family size. But this is not just about marketing products and services. If I had grown up in a society where dogs were never kept as pets, I would not have learned my desire to have dogs as companions. Last weekend I was at a festival and surrounded by people who desired to be great musicians, and many of whom had fulfilled that desire, and once again I felt myself catching that desire, which in my case will never be fulfilled. And look at how faded desires get re-ignited. We have probably all seen a man who has ceased to desire his wife until some other man shows interest, and then suddenly he is aflame with desire for her again. Desire is contagious. We recognise the value of things when we see that other people desire them. We learn our desires by unconsciously imitating other people in what they desire.

Now this is universal and unavoidable. This is intrinsic to what it is to be human. We can't change it, we can only manage it. And what the tenth commandment is pointing to is the need to manage it, to contain it. In itself, there is nothing wrong with learning to desire by imitation, but it does have a significant down side that needs to be contained. When we learn to desire by imitating, we soon find that we are desiring the same thing as some other people, and that turns us into rivals. Two women who are rivals in their shared desire for the one man do not usually become admirers of each other's strengths and virtues. Two men who are rivals in their desire for the top job do not usually end up supporting and affirming one another. Just look at the Labor Party of late! So in fact the final commandment with its prohibition of desire is getting to the root of the issue in the previous four commandments. If it were possible for us to stop desiring what other people have, then the other commandments would be superfluous because we would have no inclination to turn against each other and malign one another, and steal one another's stuff, and target one another's lovers, and when it all gets completely out of hand, kill each other.

But of course, we are human beings, and it is not possible to just stop desiring what others desire and acquire. And so we need laws to make sure the consequences don't get out of hand. We need the threat of legally sanctioned violence to act as a deterrent, so that the desire to remain alive and free will outweigh the desire to act treacherously to obtain what others have beaten us to. And for many people, it seems, therein lies the whole of the gospel. Enforce adherence to the Ten Commandments, and all will be well. But surely the commandments themselves are telling us that all will not be well; that the law may keep the problem from getting right out of control, but it can never overcome it. The law may keep most of us in check most of the time, but it doesn't deal with the roots of the problem, and we are still stuck wishing that we were more like other people and could have what they have and resenting them for getting ahead of us.

The gospel of our Lord Jesus the Messiah is not just an improved way of containing the problem. The gospel of Christ is about complete salvation from the problem. It takes seriously the problem witnessed to in the commandments, and especially in the last one, and approaches the problem in a quite different way, a way which does not overturn the law, but which fulfils it and ultimately renders it redundant. For what Jesus does is acknowledge that we learn to desire by imitation and give us a new and life-giving pattern to imitate. Jesus calls us to imitate him in his imitation of his heavenly Father. For if we truly imitate Jesus in his imitation of the Father, there is nothing there to turn us into rivals of one another. What we will be imitating is love and mercy and self-giving. "Be like your Father in heaven who sends down his rain on the evil and the good alike." If we could achieve such singleness of desire for God and God alone, for love and love alone, then we would be saved and the world would be healed. Sorën Kierkegaard said "purity of heart is to will one thing." To will one thing; to desire one thing -- the kingdom of God. Seek first the Kingdom of God, and everything else will fall into place.

Our gospel reading spoke of the zeal of Jesus; his passionate desire. In his single minded desire for the Kingdom of God, he could not stand to see the worship of greed taking place in the temple itself. To desire one thing. But also in the gospel reading we heard Jesus' outrageously bold claim about the radical change that was taking place through his life and ministry. Tear down the temple, and I will build it up again in three days, and we are told by the narrator that he was referring to his own resurrection. Tear down the temple —this great symbol of the old system, of the law and the bloody sacrifices demanded when our rivalrous desires get out of hand. Tear down the temple, and I myself will rise up as its replacement. What an astonishing claim.

And yet he has followed through on that claim. He maintained his perfect imitation of the Father even when our need to sacrifice another victim in our futile struggle to contain our own hostility turned on him and called him a threat to our law and order. He maintained that perfect imitation all the way to a tortured death on the cross, and then rose three days later still consumed with a passion, not for vengeance, but for the love and extravagant forgiveness that he learned in imitating the Father. And knowing that we could not quit imitating one another and turn our attention to God without our old selves being snuffed out, he calls us to follow him and be immersed into his death in the waters of baptism, so that we might rise with him to new life, freed and forgiven and being transformed into the likeness of the Father.

Law and Order? Well, gathered up into the love and mercy of the crucified Christ, there is no longer the need for prohibitions for those who live in imitation of Christ. The whole law, which Moses managed to summarise down to ten prohibitions, is now fulfilled in two positives. Love the Lord your God with your whole being, and love your neighbour as yourself. When we rise to life with Christ, and love God and one another in imitation of his love for us, law and order will take care of itself and desire will lead us only into love and no longer into rivalry. May the desire of Christ consume us, to the glory of God and for the salvation of the world. Amen.